Left to right: Dr. Michael Wilson led the Tempe Wind Ensemble and Don played bassoon in the group. April and her husband knew Paula as a regular at The Lakes of Tempe parties. Chuck and Jenny used to come over to my parents' house for rehearsals. Don and Chuck played in Jump Jive n' Wailers. Dave and his wife have been our next door neighbors since 1992.

Alonna and Mark were our parents' neighbors, and included Paula in their out to international lunch club in her last years. Melanie was the publisher of a periodical and hired Paula to sell advertising. Last one in that row is me and my little brother, Bill.

Deane is a longtime friend who now lives nearby in Tucson. Greta was our family therapist in the 1970s, who became a family friend. Gretchen was our across the street neighbor and hosted many holiday parties for us. We especially celebrated Halloween. Justin is a friend and business associate of my brother's, and also happens to be a pastor. He gave the eulogy and prayers.